Thursday, March 1, 2007

love...
just watched "guess who" on starmovies and ashton kutcher said something in the show that is seems really cool and very tug-at-your-heartstrings.. i dont exactly remember how the whole thing is but yeah.. it was really sweet..

i guess sometimes, what they say about opposites attract, might just be pretty true.. maybe not for all but according to the movie "guess who" it is..
so ashton kutcher said something like being in love is like making each other whole.. that if he isnt there with you, you feel like you're not a person, not a whole or something along those lines..

but frankly, my opinion, although i do agree that what the movie said was quite true, i feel that somehow, you need to love yourself enough to allow someone to love you.. you need to feel like you're a whole on your own before you make someone feel like there's another whole he can be..
love is also probably something like making yourself a better person, with the help of someone who loves you for who you are and not for what he would make you out to be..
of course we have this "ideal" man that we've pictured in our mind, in our dreams... but in love, i dont think we should set a high standard for the one you love to reach, like pushing him so hard you drive him away.. instead, i think we should push each other to a certain limit where the both of you can reach together.. in love, you make each other a better person that he can be.. even though there would be times when things arent going so great and we all act like little kids, not giving way and not admitting that you are wrong, i guess love always has a way of making things right again, no matter how badly we've hurt each other.. as long as there is love, i think everyone should be happy..

so love isnt just about having someone supermodel-beautiful to show off to your friends, but having someone whom you think is beautiful INWARDLY to show off to your friends..
love isnt just about having someone to fetch around to monitor, but having to know that she is safe where she is supposed to be.
love isnt just about making yourself feel complete, but having to make yourself and another person another whole.. (which means there are 3 wholes, you, him, and you+him)

actually, love cannot be defined.. love is everywhere around us where you noticed it or not.. between friends, between couples, between family... maybe even strangers..
so love may defer from individual to individual but still, love is always about caring and all those sweet things..
and by sweet things, i dont exactly mean chocolates and roses etc although those are really nice things.. haha..
what i meant was more of the unseen things, more of the money-cant-buy things.. the things like those random sms-es of "i miss you" and such.. those things..
(:

so yeah.. i hoped i made sense.. haha..
anyways, today was pretty okay, went out with siying and met yiling and got ice cream.. 3 pints of ice cream.. i feel so good..
ice cream = even fatter
darn.. haha!!! i need to exercise and the weather now makes it so difficult to because it's so nice to sleep to..
-grins-
haha!!!
so anyways, i want more jeans and i definitely want the giordano jeans.. cant remember the name of the cutting but it was skinny jeans and i totally love it.. haha..
alrights, i hope i made sense!!! see you around!!!

vanessa