Tuesday, November 20, 2007

these few weeks has been pretty hectic..
all the projects are literally pouring in, not forgetting our daily workload of assignments and stuff. the amount of time spent awake seems too little.. and the amount of time spent resting/sleeping is almost equally too little.. how are we ever going to survive in this eat-or-be-eaten world? lose out on a little and you are WAY behind everyone else.. and this isnt a very nice world when there are people who dont want to bother about you.
anyways! 2 good news today.
(:
1. i got into an attachment for next year. HAPPINESS!!!
1a. peggy will be in the same company as me!
1b. it's pretty near my place.
1c. it's near a shopping area! (means i can shop after work)

2. edmund's exams are over!!!
2a. he's bringing me out for dinner.
2b. he's driving
2c. finally meeting him after nearly 4-6 months?

haha.. isnt that exciting? 2 good news in a single day.
(:
so anyways, everyone's home except dad because he decided he wanted to go to hongkong for a few days. dont ask me the reason for going there because he didnt say and it's definitely not for work.
and for the past week, things have been going around in my mind. nothing much but here's something that has been REALLY on my mind.

why do some men decide to start a relationship outside of their marriages?
let's take the norm and say that the couple dont communicate well enough and they cant seem to get enough action in the bedroom. (this IS the norm)
let's include kids in the picture since most of the situations i've come across, involves children.
questions that comes to mind for the kids involved are these
"are we not good enough for you to stick around?"
"am i a part of the reason why you are leaving each other?"
"can i not share my dad/mum?"
i'm pretty sure there are more questions. but the one that struck me the most was the first one.
"are we not good enough for you to stick around?"
be it being with another bitch/bastard that doesnt belong or just leaving the family unit that they had promised to "be with till death do us part"
what ever happened to vows? arent vows always sacred? arent they meant to be kept? to hold true forever, no matter what happens? have they not known the Bible's talk about love? how love has all these virtues. how can love die out just because something else happens? how then, it's that love? how then, are they going to make their child know and believe that they do have someone out there for them, that love can really last, when the parents cant provide an example of themselves? how do they expect their child to believe, in love, true and forever. i'm sure we all make mistakes. whether we like it or not, we all make mistakes that we regret, that will hurt and cause so much pain and resentment from others. but like the relationship between parent and child, we should all forgive.. no matter how grave the mistake, we should all learn to forgive.
to say "yes, i know i've done wrong, please forgive me."
and for the other to say
"i forgive you"
and then try to make their marriage work all over again. i dont see why there is a excuse for divorce. there shouldnt be a reason for divorce. there shouldnt even be a word divorce. there never should have.. because i believe that God doesnt make mistakes.. only humans. and because humans make mistakes, it gives way to bad decisions.. although it may seem that i condone divorces, i know that there are exceptions. things just happen sometimes.. the way not everything has a good ending.. the way i see it, everything has a different ending. it all depends on how you view it.. you know, the different points of view, the different perspective on a certain topic.
-sighs-
life is pretty scary isnt it?
):

alrights.. got to go for now.. i'm lacking in sleep.. the migraines/headaches are coming back.. day after day, i feel the pain.. better bring painkillers wherever i go, otherwise, i'd die.
loves!

vanessa