Tuesday, November 4, 2008

lets talk about love.
i havent been on the scene for a quite some time already, cant really remember how it feels like, being in love and just enjoying someone else's company. not that i really experienced it but probably close to it. haha!

actually, i dont know what to talk about. love itself is such a general topic and i dont know where to begin, and where it should end.
i could quote things from the bible and talk about what love should be and what it shouldnt be.. yet i know, we all have different takes in how love should be although there are things that we could agree on..

if you ask me, i think love embraces how your other half is as a person, yet at the same, making him better.
(let's use a guy as the opposite sex since this is my blog and i'm looking at it from a female's standpoint)
i dont believe in those "you will love the person including his flaws" kind of thing because, a flaw is a flaw. when i'm talking about flaws, it's flaws in personality, character and such. NOT physical appearances..
i believe the reasons for falling in love should be because you are attracted to the guy's thinking, personality, character and others instead of simply taking him as an eye-candy or because he's nice to make use of and to trample all over him because he's just that "afraid" of you..
i want to fall in love for the right reasons and then, to be forever in love.
then again, i dont know if it'll ever happen.. its sad when i go out or watch the television shows and all they talk about is love and the way they hold each other's hands and do silly romantic things together.. as much as it should get on my nerves, it doesnt. i just get all ditzy and swoon over the nice little feelings they might feel. haha!!! super weird i know..

i think, love is getting harder and harder to find these days.. and i miss the times when i felt all those little silly feelings. shaowei just sent me this link PostSecrets
i connected with the 4th picture, the one about being the girl who gets pulled into a photobooth. i feel for the girl and probably knows how she feels. why cant love be simple and easy..
actually, i dont know what else to talk about.. i feel a little depressed already.

honestly. i think my period's going to come in a few days. and that, sucks.
so, give me pointers on what to talk about please!!! otherwise, i'll run out of things to talk about.. ):

vanessa